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About me.

Hi, I’m Rachael.

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I’m an ICF-qualified executive coach who works with high-achieving women in midlife — women who are capable, intelligent, and successful, yet quietly know they’re playing smaller than they’re meant to.

 

They don’t lack ambition.
They lack permission — from themselves.

That was me too.

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When success and self-doubt coexist.​

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For years, I was driven, motivated, and outwardly successful. I worked hard, achieved a lot, and was seen as reliable and competent. But beneath that capability lived a familiar fear:

 

Who am I to do this?
What if I fail?
Maybe I should wait until I’m more ready.

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I overthought decisions. I avoided moves that felt too far outside my comfort zone. I stayed just close enough to safety to feel secure — but never fully expressed.

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It looked like strategy.
It was fear.

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How fear hides in self-improvement

I became addicted to learning.

Another course.
Another qualification.
Another book that promised confidence or clarity.

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I genuinely believed the next piece of knowledge would be the thing that finally made me bold.

But fear had simply learned how to sound productive.

My self-improvement became procrastination — a subtle form of perfectionism that kept me treading water. I wasn’t frozen by fear. I was stunted by it.

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The cost of playing small

Alongside that fear lived my people-pleasing.

I stayed in unfulfilling roles because I was “too valuable to leave.”
I overgave to be seen as helpful and easy.
I muted parts of myself so I wouldn’t be too much.

On paper, my life looked good.
On the inside, it didn’t feel like mine.

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When everything fell apart — and mattered

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Then the pandemic hit.

My 17-year career in aviation ended almost overnight. My relationship was strained. My sense of identity collapsed.

I felt lost — but underneath it, a deeper truth emerged:

I had more to give.
And I couldn’t keep living from fear.

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Changing the internal landscape

 

That’s when I discovered guided visualisation — not as a mindset trick, but as a neuroscience-backed way to work with the brain instead of against it.

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I learned that the brain responds to imagined experience as if it were real. That what you practise internally becomes what you trust externally.

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So I became my own experiment.

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Every night for a year, I practised the same future-self guided visualisation. I imagined how I wanted to live, feel, work, and lead.

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Nothing changed overnight on the outside.
But internally, everything shifted.

I felt calm. Certain. Grounded.
I stopped overthinking.
I started backing myself.

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Without realising it, I was rewiring my nervous system — and my identity.

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When being changes, results follow

 

From that internal shift, the external results flowed.

I qualified as an executive coach.
I launched my business and reached six figures within the first year.
I bought a home.
I rebuilt my health and creativity.

Not by pushing harder — but by changing who I was being.

No one will ever see you as worthy if you can’t see it in yourself first.
You attract who you are being, not what you are doing.

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Why I do this work

 

Today, I work with women who don’t need more information — they need a different relationship with fear.

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Women who are done waiting to feel ready.


Women who want clarity, confidence, and grounded self-trust — without burning out or forcing themselves forward.

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My work blends executive coaching, guided visualisation, and neuroscience-informed tools to create change that’s embodied, not just intellectual.

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This isn’t about fixing yourself.

It’s about finally backing yourself — and taking up space.

 

So, are you ready to go all in on you?

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+64 27 957 5271

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